Tactful communication - key factor to the success of maintaining a friendship
Got enlightened just now ba i guess haha... things that i expect to happen happened as what i had expected... i always believe in a 2 ways communication to straighten out thoughts of different views... it takes 2 hands to clap, though it might sounds common, but how difficult it is to build out this common-ness between all of us?
If communication between a small group happens and not going to share with the whole big group, what is the point to establish a consensus between all of us?
Even if consensus cant be established, at least we know whats going on and how individual thinks and we can actually work on it in future... things that are left hanging over in the mid-air without doing anything doesnt leave a point to carry out... what's left are just the dead bodies of words on the floor... lying dead and cant reach to anyone's ear...
Bringing up things to the whole group and get it discussed is so important... give and take is so difficult... but i always believe it can be done, so i always express what my views are tactfully... what i get in return? ear whisperings between small group and dont wanto share... what do you expect us to know from what ur whisperings are trying to deliver? i realli dont have superb hearing skills... and i cant be bothered to try listening when people dont intend to share the information that is, or ought to be shared...
I simply believe friendship is not vulnerable over tiny things... but it can be when we overlooked the importance of these tiny things... sounds ironic... but it happens, all the time...
Perhaps there are still so much for me to learn... but it seems that each and everyone of us are learning the different syllabus... conclusion drew upon doesnt seems the same... neither are there able to work out together well enough... it simply sounds so sad, isnt it?
You're my everything =D